Choosing A School
Schooling choices are challenging at the best of times. Analysing catchment areas, navigating the 11+ and working out which school will be the right ‘fit’ is likely to dominate your thinking in the years leading up to the move.
But what if, compounding that stress, is the knowledge that you and your co-parent don’t agree? What then?
Well, the first place to start is the knowledge that the family court will expect you to cooperate with each other. So you need to engage in discussions. Visit each other’s proposed schools. Talk to the current school, to get an idea of what they feel might be a good fit. Talk to your child, of course, but be careful not to do so in a way that will draw them into your adult dispute.
The last thing you want is for them to feel this decision, which will impact them more than either of you, is emotionally loaded. For some parents, it can help to get some legal advice or co-parenting support in reaching an agreement. This can include your child’s views being canvassed in an independent way. Obviously think about what is proportionate in your circumstances. But if feelings run deep, don’t ignore them and hope they will go away. Ultimately, if you can’t agree, one parent can apply to the court for a specific issue order which will result in a judge imposing a school choice on you both, and your child. So the sooner you engage in discussions, the better.
If you have more questions about this topic or any other legal issues arising on divorce or separation, please do get in touch as we are always happy to help. You can call us on 0203 488 4475 or email contact@thedivorcesurgery.co.
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